I do not know what it is about me and people feeling the need to masturbate within my eyesight in a public place, but it has happened a few times now, and not because I asked for it. 

Many years ago when I worked at Starbucks I would see a lot of crazy things; I guess it did not help that I worked in the middle of Hollywood. This nice gentleman had started to visit the store I worked at more frequently, so much that we had his drink order down (Grande mocha, add shot, 2%, no whip cream).  He looked like the type that was a trainer at a near by gym, muscles popping out of his shirt.  He would always come in, order his drink (which we would practically have ready as soon as we saw him within eye view of the door - my Starbucks was always on top of it), get some kind of pastry from the pastry case, he always asked us to cut it for him, although time and time again we told him that we were not aloud, but we could give him a plastic knife and fork.  He would then sit at a small table close to the door and read a book.  He was always friendly and made conversations with all the baristas.  One day he comes in, everything is normal, except this time, after sitting at his table for awhile, he unzips his pants and while one hand is still on his book, the other hand is on his penis, outside of his pants, jacking off.  I just happened to notice because I was walking by “bussing” the tables and cleaning up the lobby.  I was so shocked that I had to take a double look to make sure I was seeing what I really thought I had saw.  I was.  I quickly told my manager, a male (thankfully) who then went over to the man and asked him to leave our store.  That same customer came back a few months later to do the same thing… wtf? Just as we went to call security, he took off running.  I never saw him back after that.

A few years before my Starbucks incident I was at a self service carwash vacuuming out my car, this time I was only about 17 years old.  I went to vacuum out the back seat of my car when I saw a car pull up beside me, I assume to use the vacuum connected to mine.  The guys gets out of his car, opens up his back passenger side door, so that he is now parallel to me.  The next thing I notice is that he sits down on his back seat, facing me and unzips his pants. I am trying not to pay attention to him because I have no idea what he is doing, nor do I want to know what he is doing.  As soon as I finish vacuuming out the back part of my car, I go to hang the vacuum back up and I see that the man is jacking off to ME.  So many things were running through my head: disgusting!, does he think that I am going to think that is hot and start having sex with him right then and there? Does he know how old I am? WTF?  I have to leave.  What if he tries to rape me?  Did anyone else see this? Leave.  Get his license plate number. LEAVE.  I hop in my car and drive away as fast as I can, flustered so I do not grab is license plate number.  As soon as I get back to my house, I told my dad what had happened and he of course gets in his car to drive down to the car wash to see if that man is still there – he is gone. 

I am sure that there is this huge thrill to masturbate in public, but it is against the law.  Do you really think (unless maybe you are in a strip club, or in jail, or around a million sex offenders) that it is okay to just whip it out in a public place?  What if it happened to your wife or daughter, would it then still be okay?  What kind of society are we living in?